If that’s out of your budget, just introduce yourself and pay them a compliment that doesn’t make you look like an amateur. Sandra Roark, a bartender, plays first hand witness to the (failed) hook-ups that take place every night at Rhumbar, an ultra-lounge tucked off the casino floor of the Mirage.
“It’s a very comfortable, cozy setting,” Sandra points out.
“It’s not a place where people date as seriously as they do in other cities." And she would know about male-female interactions.
“We condone hooking up here over actual relationships and dating,” she says, citing the famous “What Happens Here, Stays Here” advertising campaign.
The girls will often just take advantage of the guys to get free drinks in between visits to the dance floor. All girls love shoes.” Bottom line to hooking up: Be patient and don’t rely on pick-up lines.
Instead, Sandra says a guy should take his time, make a real connection and compliment a girl’s style instead of her looks. But most of all, be genuine and present with who you’re talking with. “Sarah,” who asked we use a fake name, is a former exotic dancer at Sapphire Gentlemen’s Club.
So feel free to invite a girl back to your table... “You always want to invite her friends, too,” Andrea continues.
“By inviting her friends, she feels comfortable and then everyone has a good time.